Get Out: Loathing my Job, Lonely Without Friends & Hobbies
Job ads that make you clenched or depressed? Stop entertaining those ideas for your next gig. Regardless of pay or how much sense they make on paper, they don’t make sense for YOU.
Get Out: Loathing my Job, Lonely Without Friends & Hobbies
Job ads that make you clenched or depressed? Stop entertaining those ideas for your next gig. Regardless of pay or how much sense they make on paper, they don’t make sense for YOU.
Get Out: I Hate People!
Sick of people? Telecommuting might be a good plan. Beware, though! If you don’t understand the source of your misanthropy –unmet introvert needs? poor boundaries?–you’ll still be unhappy with work, no matter where it is. Even if you telecommute, you’re going to be dealing with people.
Scare Yourself a Little, Frustrated Lawyer-Writers
November 1 is breathing down our necks! Why does this matter? Well, there’s this thing I write about sometimes, called
Get Out: Old, Burned Out, Few Skills
Will this be easy? No. But neither is living with your stress level. Stress kills us by triggering health problems that might have lain dormant. Plus it robs us of joy. Who wouldn’t want to trade poor health and misery for a chance at something much better?
Get Out: Artist in a Lawyer Suit
Dear Jennifer, I’m three years out of school. I lasted 18 months at my big law job, where they inexplicably
Get Out! Advice for Unhappy Lawyers
Ever wished you could write for advice from a career coach who understood law? Well now, you can. Fire off that letter to jalvey@jenniferalvey.com. Maybe your letter will be the first one answered!
The Origins of Toxic Law Culture
Rarely are there calls for the legal industry to hold itself accountable for creating alarming rates of depression/substance abuse/suicide in the profession. Despite the fact that lawyering is a stressful job done while surrounded by many dysfunctional, unpleasant people who actively try to thwart you—colleagues and opposing counsel alike. Somehow, we are supposed to survive and thrive in a toxic hellscape at work.
