I’ve written before about how law is one of the few professions in which pessimism pays off. The more problems you can foresee, the more disasters you can envision, the more likely you will be to keep your client out of a legal quagmire.
But that personality trait is one of the single biggest obstacles to [...]
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Lawyer Pessimism and the Alternative Career Search
Posted in career tools, lawyer dysfunction, lawyers & depression, tagged lawyer pessimism, pessimism and alternative legal careers on November 3, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Suspect ADD? A Few Insights for Attorneys
Posted in ADD and attorneys, BigLaw, associate life, billable hours, career tools, lawyer dysfunction, lawyers & depression, lawyers and Attention Deficit, tagged deadlines, Driven to Distraction on September 28, 2009 | 1 Comment »
If you’re unhappy in law because you
hate the lack of creativity in it,
despise having to show each tiny piss-ante step of reasoning when it’s freaking OBVIOUS how you got there,
get bored and pissed with all the pointless bickering back and forth about commas and such–except when you’re really exorcised about something you wrote,
rail at all [...]
Lawyers and the CareerBuilder SuperBowl Ad
Posted in associate life, career tools, filling the well, law firms, lawyers & depression, soul's needs, tagged CareerBuilder Superbowl ad, cool jobs, dream jobs for lawyers, top 10 jobs for lawyers on February 2, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Admit it–if you’re thinking about leaving the law, you have felt EXACTLY like CareerBuilder’s brilliantly subversive commercial from the SuperBowl: “If you make loads of money, but hate going to work every day, your coworkers don’t respect you, you always wish you were somewhere else, you cry constantly, you daydream of punching small animals, and [...]
What do you get when leaving law?
Posted in BigLaw, associate life, law firms, lawyers & depression, money, soul's needs, tagged pessimism and lawyers, creativity, Martin Seligman, Authentic Happiness, Positive Psychology on July 15, 2008 | 5 Comments »
When I was thinking about leaving law, I focused a lot on all the things I would lose:
Money
Status
Long hours
Working weekends regularly
Achingly boring work
Colleagues who were anything but collegial
A known career [...]
Educating Lawyers
Posted in lawyers & depression, soul's needs, tagged creativity and lawyers, education, gifted education, Jay Matthews, Montessori on May 16, 2008 | 2 Comments »
No, this isn’t a rant about legal education (though I should do about a dozen of those, shouldn’t I?) It’s about how our educational system pushes bright, talented kids to pursue crap they don’t honestly have a passion for. Like, say, law. And all too many of you know how that ends up—talented people who [...]
A Law Student Tells It Like It Is
Posted in BigLaw, associate life, lawyer dysfunction, lawyers & depression, money, soul's needs, tagged Amelia Rawls, Ivy League, mean people suck, soft skills, Yale Law School on May 1, 2008 | 6 Comments »
My new hero for the day is Amelia Rawls. She is a 1L at Yale (don’t roll your eyes yet), and wrote a piece that appeared in today’s Washington Post about whether Ivy grads are, well, nice people or not. Now, she isn’t making a completely broadbrush statement that everyone who attends an Ivy isn’t [...]
Goldilocks and the Legal Career Coach
Posted in career tools, law firms, lawyers & depression, tagged alternative legal career, INFP, Meyers-Briggs on February 25, 2008 | 4 Comments »
You may have heard that you shouldn’t sell therapy short just because the first therapist you chose wasn’t a good fit. The same goes for legal career counselors—the first one, or two, may not be right for you.
You know I’m a fan of career counselors and therapists. But I’ll bet you didn’t know that I [...]
Finding a Career Coach
Posted in associate life, career tools, law firms, lawyer dysfunction, lawyers & depression, tagged alternative legal career, legal career coach, legal career counselor on February 19, 2008 | 2 Comments »
Some of the best money I ever spent was on a career coach who helped me actually get out of law. I’d been wanting to find that miraculous alternative legal career, but I kept getting in my own way. Having someone who could help me sort out what was fact (I’m highly creative) from fiction [...]
Friday Files: Wouldn’t Wanna Be Ya
Posted in BigLaw, Friday Files, law firms, lawyers & depression, tagged alex berenson, brad berenson, eli lilly, new york times, pepper hamilton, portfolio.com, prozac, sidley austin on February 15, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Sometimes, you just feel for people. Even though you know that most BigLaw partners are huge pains in the tookus, when one screws up so majorly and publicly, you feel something. Gratitude, if nothing else, that it wasn’t you who did it.
It’s the worst nightmare of every attorney: an email goes astray to a reporter. [...]