I’ve written before about how law is one of the few professions in which pessimism pays off. The more problems you can foresee, the more disasters you can envision, the more likely you will be to keep your client out of a legal quagmire.
But that personality trait is one of the single biggest obstacles to [...]
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Lawyer Pessimism and the Alternative Career Search
Posted in career tools, lawyer dysfunction, lawyers & depression, tagged lawyer pessimism, pessimism and alternative legal careers on November 3, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Suspect ADD? A Few Insights for Attorneys
Posted in ADD and attorneys, BigLaw, associate life, billable hours, career tools, lawyer dysfunction, lawyers & depression, lawyers and Attention Deficit, tagged deadlines, Driven to Distraction on September 28, 2009 | 1 Comment »
If you’re unhappy in law because you
hate the lack of creativity in it,
despise having to show each tiny piss-ante step of reasoning when it’s freaking OBVIOUS how you got there,
get bored and pissed with all the pointless bickering back and forth about commas and such–except when you’re really exorcised about something you wrote,
rail at all [...]
A Law Student Tells It Like It Is
Posted in BigLaw, associate life, lawyer dysfunction, lawyers & depression, money, soul's needs, tagged Amelia Rawls, Ivy League, mean people suck, soft skills, Yale Law School on May 1, 2008 | 6 Comments »
My new hero for the day is Amelia Rawls. She is a 1L at Yale (don’t roll your eyes yet), and wrote a piece that appeared in today’s Washington Post about whether Ivy grads are, well, nice people or not. Now, she isn’t making a completely broadbrush statement that everyone who attends an Ivy isn’t [...]
The Blinders You Rode in With
Posted in career tools, law firms, lawyer dysfunction, tagged alternative lawyer career path, legal publishing on April 16, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
When I accepted that first job that wasn’t practicing law, I got a lot of questions. A big one was: Well, what can you do if it doesn’t work out? Isn’t that kind of a dead-end job?
(For those of you who have not committed my CV to memory, my first post-law job was as a [...]
Finding a Career Coach
Posted in associate life, career tools, law firms, lawyer dysfunction, lawyers & depression, tagged alternative legal career, legal career coach, legal career counselor on February 19, 2008 | 2 Comments »
Some of the best money I ever spent was on a career coach who helped me actually get out of law. I’d been wanting to find that miraculous alternative legal career, but I kept getting in my own way. Having someone who could help me sort out what was fact (I’m highly creative) from fiction [...]
Some of My Best Friends Are Lawyers
Posted in BigLaw, associate life, law firms, lawyer dysfunction, lawyers & depression, tagged Aristotle on January 30, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
So looking back on my posts, one might reasonably conclude that I don’t like lawyers. Not so! Some of my dearest, closest friends are lawyers. Most of them are practicing law, even. Just not in BigLaw. Were they in BigLaw, or even MediumLaw, I daresay they wouldn’t have time to be a friend.
Back in law’s [...]
Law Firms and Work-Life Balance–um, rite
Posted in BigLaw, associate life, billable hours, law firms, lawyer dysfunction, tagged abusive spouse, abusive work environment, women in workplace on January 29, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
So I’ve been reading a couple of blogs that discuss whether law firms are becoming more hospitable to those who want a work-life balance. (Here, and here.) I think ultimately, law firms will change some of how they manage their resources, just because of the sheer number of Millennials. But I’ve been waiting since the [...]
But I Have No Marketable Skills Except Law
Posted in BigLaw, associate life, career tools, law firms, lawyer dysfunction, soul's needs, tagged doubt and lawyers, lawyer self-esteem on January 25, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard some version of “I can’t do anything except practice law,” well, I’d have more money than I currently do. Probably enough to buy an iPhone, at any rate.
And it’s really funny, because most non-lawyers assume exactly the opposite, that if you’ve made it through the [...]
The Truth About Your Evil Colleagues
Posted in associate life, career tools, law firms, lawyer dysfunction, tagged Cubicle Culture, evil colleagues, work environment on January 22, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
I tend to believe the best about people when I start working with them — for example, that they are telling me the truth, working in good faith with me, being honest when we have conflicting agendas — so of course I am often wildly disappointed in people and frequently disillusioned. (That’s why it’s important [...]